First impressions are of utmost importance in the professional and social world. Research has proven that the feelings and judgments made from a first impression are difficult to alter and will linger for a long time.
There are several strategies to make sure you are making unforgettable and positive first impressions:
1. Exude confidence
A friend once told me that before he would attend any party or social gathering, he would repeat the mantra "I am awesome and confident and everybody loves me." The exaggeration brought a lightness to the situation and the powerful words helped him get into a extroverted, carefree attitude that projected a secure inner confidence.
2. Be yourself, but know your audience
If you are an underground Anarchist, for example, a job interview is not the right time to share your political ideology. The same goes for any views that are rare, controversial, or when the chances of an interviewer resonating with them are slim. This does not mean you should hide away all of your passions and unique qualities. The ability to be authentic (while respectful) will gain people's trust and put others at ease for them to be themselves as well. It also opens the door to make a memorable connection.
3. Look like you care
Dressing clean and sharp for a meeting or interview shows that you care about the job and company, which is the livelihood of the person interviewing you. Dressing in an impressive costume to a costume party shows you not only respect the host, but you also respect a good costume. When it comes to first impressions, caring about your appearance shows both self-respect and appreciation.
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